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Leaning Into Our Fears

Joseph Rios EdD
9 min readApr 20, 2020

In a world changing daily, how do you stay relevant in your work? Learn to lean into what you fear and harness that energy! Read more about how you can.

When people play the icebreaker Two Truths and a Lie, I usually have one of the best true stories among the group. I tell people, truthfully, that when I was 8 years old, a car ran into my house and hit me while I was sleeping in my bed. True story, this actually did happen to me. I usually make a joke about getting thrown across the room into the closet, and then I came out 10 years later.

But the incident belies a long-standing fear I have had since then.

A Lingering Fear

Needless to say, I never got around to getting a driver’s license. I have tried in the past. Unsuccessfully.

During my last driving lesson in Los Angeles in 2013, I tried to drive around a parked ice cream truck, overcorrected, and broke a side mirror of a car parked on the street. I was so paralyzed from what is a pretty fixable accident (solved with $75 cash and a new mirror from the auto shop down the street) that I haven’t been behind the wheel since then.

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Joseph Rios EdD
Joseph Rios EdD

Written by Joseph Rios EdD

I believe leadership is the expression of values. Career Coach | Educator | Writer | Social Justice Advocate | Trainer. leadershipandvaluesinaction.com

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