PinnedHow to Lead When Your Team Is Exhausted — and You Are, TooRead How to Lead When Your Team Is Exhausted — and You Are, Too by Merete Wedell-Wedellsborg, from Harvard Business Review. I am tired. The extravert inside me craves seeing people. The energy that I used to get from people during the day isn’t the same through a Zoom call…Work4 min read
PinnedDo I Stay or Do I Go?During my own onboarding experience, I explore recommendations for evaluating workplace values alignment I have sat on this post for some time now. I have chronicled my job search woes and excitements over the last three years. Putting my thoughts into my posts has helped me look at the experiences…Work5 min read
PinnedInterview Questions — The Best and the WorstOur interview questions can sometimes thwart attempts in hiring the best candidates. Learn how to identify some clunkers and replace them with quality questions! Let’s do some guided imagery to kick off this post. Imagine this: You and your team will need to hire a new person to round out…Interview5 min read
PinnedI Am (Not) White, Right?Recently, I joined our department’s racial equity planning committee. After nearly 20 years working in diversity/equity/inclusion (DEI) work in higher education, I thought it would be a good way to learn ways to do this work in a different industry. Yesterday, I was asked…Life6 min read
PinnedStop Telling Women They Have Imposter SyndromeThis might come across as a hot-take, but the idea of ‘imposter syndrome’ may not be the right answer for how women experience life in the workplace. Imposter syndrome “is loosely defined as doubting your abilities and feeling like a fraud. It disproportionately affects high-achieving people, who find it difficult…Women4 min read
Jun 17Who Needs the Closure: Sharing My Grief in PublicA couple of weeks ago, I got a random instant message from one of my cousins. Growing up, we were close but as adults, I haven’t talked to him since our last family reunion. And that was back in 2011. He wanted to call me on the phone to talk…Grief4 min read
Published in How Come No One Ever Told Me?·Jun 17Sorry, Not Sorry: Why We Need to Stop ApologizingA year ago at my old office, we had an intern who led almost all of her sentences with “I’m sorry…” I noticed she did it when she showed up on time or had an important question to ask, or when she just put her folders on the table we…Newsletter3 min read
Jun 16The Struggle Being an Extrovert in IsolationA few years into the pandemic, my extrovert batteries are running low after years of working from home. But I know I’m not alone in the struggle. I knew that life after 2020 would be a struggle for me. And for once in the last few years, I can’t blame…Life6 min read
Jun 14Why Am I Afraid of Elevating My Job Title to Match My Skills: Exploring My FearsMy recent job search has revealed several issues, which prompts exploring my fears related to applying for more senior-level jobs. Originally, I was going to compose a post about how to switch up my job search strategies. I was going to focus on how I chose jobs in the past…Work6 min read
Jun 10Moving Beyond Performative Ally BehaviorsLooking through my Facebook memories, the following image popped up from 2020. I felt inclined to share it here. The image from June 8, 2020, a Twitter post from user @aliciatcrosby, says: Dear White People We don’t need y’all to performatively wash our feet, cut your hair, wear kente…Pride5 min read